Ladies if you have a crush on a godly man, but he isn’t pursuing you, put him out of sight and out of mind. Men are the head, they need to lead. You keep your pretty eyes on Jesus alone!
“If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.” (Colossians 3:1-3)
Everything God has for you is “hidden with Christ.” That means you gotta seek Him in order to discover who you are and what plans He has for your life.
“And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband.” (1 Corinthians 7:34)
If you’re single, do not focus on marriage and who “the one” is. Jesus is the One, and you are married to Him. If you often think about marriage and are anxious to meet someone, you may have created an idol in your heart.
So put to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you. Have nothing to do with sexual immorality, impurity, lust, and evil desires. Don’t be greedy, for a greedy person is an idolater, worshiping the things of this world. (Colossians 3:5 NLT)
If you’re thinking a lot about a certain guy or “who might my future husband be,” you aren’t satisfied with the only perfect person in existence, and if that’s the case, you will not be satisfied with an imperfect child of God.
Ladies, know your worth to the Only One who bought you with His very life. He wants you to love Him with all your heart, mind, and strength. That means He should be what consumes your thoughts. That means He should be who you strive to please and spend lots of time with and energy on. Not a guy.
Pray and ask Jesus to help you grow to love Him in the way He desires you to.