Why I’ll Let a Man Open the Door For Me

It’s a sad day when a woman refuses to allow a man to open the door for her.

I enjoy being treated differently by men because I am different from them.

Holding the door open is an act of service, a nod of respect, and a show of honor. The woman who deems it offensive has insecurity issues: she’s insecure in her body, which happens to be female, so she recoils at a reminder of that fact, even a typically pleasant one. The man who is opening the door has no intentions of belittling her or bullying her; he considers it polite because it’s been an age-old gesture created to display just that: politeness. Why were men taught this? Because they were told that women should be recognized and honored for who they are.

A man opening the door for you is also saying, “Let me help you, not because you can’t yourself, but because I want the privilege of doing it for you.” Now God forbid a man helps a woman. I wonder how the feminist would act if she tried to help a man and he told her, “Don’t, I don’t need your help.” She’d cuss him out, toss a drink in his face or slam her hand across it.

A few decades ago, what our older—often wiser—generation deemed as polite, our younger—statistically more “mentally ill”—generation deems offensive and oppressive. “I am woman. Don’t dare open a door for me, that’s sexist and highly offensive. But you better cuss and talk dirty around me.”

It appears many women in my generation are blowing themselves up like balloons with this anti-man pride and racism, and it’s silly to say the least.

“She’s just like one of the guys.” Uh, no thanks. I’m not a man so I don’t want to be treated like one. (Click to Tweet)

Lost in the Pro-Choice Sea

Now let’s touch on abortion, lauded as the ultimate human right for a woman. “It’s my body! You men better not tell me what to do with it!”

Correction: it is not just your body; there’s a second body living within you that belongs to someone else.

Now how about that apartment you’re leasing or that house you got a loan from the bank for: Technically, that home isn’t yours, it’s the lessor’s or the bank’s. So if they decide you are an unwanted inconvenience, they should be able to enter “your” home with a metal clamp and tear off all of your limbs and then rip your head from your shoulders and throw your remains in the trash outside, or better yet, sell them and earn some profit. It should be their ultimate right and what if they began fighting passionately for it? Would you hope someone defends you, or would you agree and let them pursue the right to murder their tenants?

Ah women, we once prided ourselves in building up the very men who would work hard to make a living in order to support us and a family because we were worthy enough to sweat and labor for, and what we have to offer—children and a safe nurturing place to call home—were worth toiling for.

Now, we pride ourselves in lewdness and murdering the very children that we alone are special enough to create and sustain from within. Instead of building up that next generation, we want people to help pay for their annihilation.

That’s not what it inherently and naturally means to be a woman, for what thousands of years women innately knew about themselves and embraced. In fact, this new pride is completely opposing to what it means to be a woman.

I am a woman. I cannot change the fact that I was born into a body designed to create and sustain human life. I cannot deny the pain I felt when my body failed to produce that life and the fear that I would never be able to perform and enjoy that kind of miracle. I cannot help but help, to support, to encourage and teach those around me to fight for what’s right, both female and male. It’s engrained in my natural design and these roles I play are crucial. They are so infinitely important that no one would exist if my incredible female body didn’t do what it’s been doing for millenniums. It is because of this wonderful body that there is life on this earth.

So no, I will not deny who I am and fight to destroy my identity as a woman and destroy the next generation with it; to create less and less life. Ha, can you imagine if every woman decided to stop making children? Hello extinction.

Rather, I will enjoy when a man chooses to open the door for me because he sees me, he knows I’m different from him, and he honors my womanhood. I’ll smile at him and say, “Thank you.”


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My Response To A Pro-Choice Advocate

I understand your desire for freedom of choice. However, heaven aside, there is an earthly order of things: laws that are set up for the protection and peace of mankind. Murder is a crime in every state of America. My zeal is intensified by the fact that humans get punished all the time for murdering another human being, but abortion is the very same thing, and millions have gotten away with it and there is no justice. Each of our mindsets have an extreme. The end of my extreme is all human beings repent of their sins which harm not only others but themselves as well (abortions significantly increase the chances of breast cancer and future death when the woman decides to give birth to a child), embrace God’s plan for forgiveness and redemption; His perfect son who lived a sinless life, dying on a rugged cross for the sins of all humanity, and his resurrection from death, that whoever trusts in and gives their heart to Jesus, will receive forgiveness and likewise be able to resurrect a new person with godly desires through the power of the Holy Spirit who lives in all who choose to follow Christ, and will resurrect to life after they die, that if everyone embraces the loving sacrifice of Jesus, they will, by the power of His Spirit, be able to obey God’s command which Christ taught was firstly: love God with all your heart, mind and strength and second love your neighbor as yourself. If the world actually embraced the amazing gift God gave to humanity to redeem them, no one would be murdered or robbed or raped or cheated on, because love does not do these things. The end of your extreme is let everyone do what they want because it’s their choice whether wrong or not. So if ISIS decides to come to America (which they already are here and have created murder plots against innocent lives) and they decide to destroy humans, let them. They may be wrong, but hey, it’s their choice, their belief, who am I to judge? We have a judicial system that is supposed to judge and penalize wrong-doing, and maybe if someone tried to murder you by slicing you into pieces, you would feel differently about the helpless children being murdered by abortionists.

What if millions of Americans decided people on welfare or needing food stamps are an inconvenience because the money for those programs is coming out of their paycheck so they decide to kill everyone receiving funds from these things? Will you stand against that? Or will you allow injustice to create utter chaos and a highly dangerous environment for you to live in?

Dear woman, love does not turn a blind eye to the helpless, it protects them. God instituted laws for a reason: capital punishment began with him. He considers all of his offspring to be made in his image. He is just and the avenger of all evil. If someone murders his creation, there are penalties, and his word, the bible, calls us to defend the voiceless and helpless:

Learn to do good; seek justice, correct oppression; bring justice to the fatherless, plead the widow’s cause.-Isaiah 1:17

Thus says the Lord: Do justice and righteousness, and deliver from the hand of the oppressor him who has been robbed. And do no wrong or violence to the resident alien, the fatherless, and the widow, nor shed innocent blood in this place.-Jeremiah 22:3

He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?-Micah 6:8

But if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.-1 John 3:17-18

“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.”-Matthew 7:12

Open your mouth for the speechless, In the cause of all who are appointed to die. Open your mouth, judge righteously, And plead the cause of the poor and needy. (‭Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭8-9‬ NKJV)

There are many more verses on social justice, and that’s just my main point: we can desire and preach justice for ourselves if we are attacked or someone murders our loved one, but we will be hypocritical because we deny other humans the same right to justice because instead of living in their mother’s apartment, they’re living in her womb.

Love is not words alone, it is not sitting back and watching innocent lives be apart of genocide. It is sacrificing your own comfort, your time, your social status or even your own safety in their defense, because you love them and don’t want their precious life to be punished and snuffed out for no fault of their own.

Abortions Galore Because The Government Loves Women Soooo Much

Who in the blazes does this government think they are!? To try and force people to financially support the vile act of abortion, to institute such lawless evil and enforce it upon those with a moral conscience toward God Almighty? Does not the Declaration of Independence say EVERYONE has a right to LIFE, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness? Everyone but innocent children in their mother’s womb of course. At conception, there’s human DNA yet many lie and says it’s merely a clump of tissue. They MUST lie in order to ease their conscience from the heinous act of murdering an innocent life, literally tearing its limbs apart by use of metal sticks, scrambling the baby to pieces as its heart-rate climbs in fear and pain. But no, we must not let the mother’s know what we are doing, so when we yank out the tiny decapitated head we will call it “number 1.”

Look this up, these are facts friends. The abortion industry BANKS so the government in their greed wants more and more and more of it. They can care less that abortion doubles a woman’s chances of getting breast cancer and then triples and continues to increase the chances after multiple abortions. They don’t care that many women have nightmares afterwards and that suicide rates go up for women after they’ve aborted. They don’t want women to know about FREE PREGNANCY CENTERS that help women with unplanned pregnancy, paying for all their prenatal visits and then help them find a loving adoptive family to take their child when he or she is born.

No. They don’t want women to know that because they do not CARE about women or children, they only care about their bank account!

Shut Up And Let Us Kill And Do Whatever Else We Want

If the majority wants the right to murder their helpless children in their womb we should let them because well, they’re the majority, right? If the majority decides they don’t want to buy property anymore, but take homes they like by force, we should let them because they’re the majority, right? If the majority wants to legalize rape, we should legalize rape because the supposed majority wants it, right? Otherwise, we are forcing our moralism on them. Oh, but actually, if we do legalize what they want, they are forcing their lack of moralism on us.

Should we accept their violence, to ours and many people’s destruction? Or should we stand against sin and evil for the sake of the people, and by prayer and civil action, not permit such violence to be enacted on the basis of preserving life?

Chaos happens when evil laws are passed and God’s law is shunned. And this nation and our president, and many American politicians, to our shame and embarrassment, are doing this very thing: passing evil laws and trying to silence those who oppose them.

And we think God does not see? We should be terrified of His righteous judgement on a land that so spitefully rejects and fights against His laws and in pride justifies its treachery and lawlessness with meaningless ideologies of relativism and evolution. Why? Because we want to do what we want without fear of judgement. Deep down we know we are wrong but we silence our consciences by choosing to deceive ourselves with the teachings we like, the ones that don’t condemn our sins, but applaud them, until finally we believe them and have completely crucified our consciences.

Now, we think we are free, but really, we are a slave to the sin we have allowed to rule us, instead of letting the truth and reality of who Jesus Christ is to free us from the power of our evil desires that we may live righteously and truly love others, not just accept and tolerate them.

I love God and the homosexual so I speak against their destructive lifestyle. Not because I’m on a high-horse of self-righteousness but because I know God is love, yet He is also just, and cannot go back on His Word. If He condemns an act that can be forgivable, such as homosexuality, theft, lying, lust, adultery, premarital sex, and even murder, I would be hateful to just shut my mouth and let those indulging in such sins stroll blindly into hell. Because I would rather speak the truth in love, though it may hurt their pride or cause a brief pain when they realize they must separate themselves from that sin, than let them be deceived, or cheer them onto the path of destruction.

God loves us so He tells us the truth, plain and clear. He doesn’t blur the lines and confuse us with gray areas. He labels sin that we might repent of it and receive eternal life with Him. He gave His only perfect Son to die a gruesome death—the death we all deserved—because of our sins. Jesus, the Son of God, defeated sin and death by living a perfect sinless life and then rising from the grave the third day. And He promises that those who trust in Him and give their hearts to Him can likewise conquer sin and death. God “kills your party” to protect your body and soul that you may be able to join Him at His celebration in eternal paradise, where joy is not a fleeting drug or orgasm, but is being in the midst of love Himself for all eternity where He wipes away every tear, and where no more pain or evil exists. A place of true peace, the kind we hope for on this earth but will never have until Christ returns and once for all destroys satan and those who follow him, and Jesus who is Love and Truth rules over and cares for every soul who has chosen to be His and to follow Him.

You may not have tomorrow, so why not choose Life today. Jesus said: “I am the way, the truth, and the life, and no one gets to the Father except by Me.”

I pray your eyes are opened to what matters, that you set your mind on heaven, not earth, on life, not death. Jesus is the Best Person that has ever happened to me, and He offers Himself to anyone who is willing. You can ask Him yourself. You don’t need to go to a church building, or a pastor, to encounter Jesus. He is the only Mediator between God and man, and you can go directly to Him to have your sins forgiven, your slate made clean, and your heart transformed by the indwelling of His most powerful Holy Spirit. Please choose life today!